Yesterday afternoon I was driving in my truck (I love my cherry red pickup truck) with Jack yodelling from the passenger seat when I tuned in to Talk of the Nation on NPR. They were in the middle of discussing school discipline and inequality and the part I heard had a first year teacher call in to complain about this one student who kept showing up in her classroom despite numerous incidents of disruption. She said that she spoke with administration, to no avail at first. To his parents, who eventually cussed her out on the phone. Then back to administration, and I think finally he was removed from the school. At the end of her bit, she made a plea for more alternative schools for ‘kids like him’. I’m not sure what she meant by that. Disruptive? Black? Bored? Different?
What struck me was that no where did she mention that she spoke to the boy. Not an in front of the class kind of speaking to the boy but a one on one, caring kind of speaking.
When she wished there were more alternative schools to put ‘kids like him’ I immediately pressed record on my cell phone and said,
‘Here’s a big idea. Why don’t we get rid of alternative schools altogether and just all teach as if we were alternative school teachers.’
When I taught at an alternative school I felt that I was finally teaching the way I was meant to be teaching all along. From a core of relationship. From a starting point of care.
When I say alternative program or school I don’t mean a place where they dumb down the curriculum or focus on life skills because their clients have already failed at ‘real’ school. I mean a place where kids are held to high standards but are helped in their assent past those standards by caring adults. Where glitches are not met with criticism and punishment but conversation and direction. Where discipline and failure does not happen to some more than others because of the colour of their skin, the language of their tongue, or the experience of their parents.
Now that I no longer teach in an alternative program I strive to remain that kind of educator – the kind of teacher I am meant to be.
Sounds as though the teacher has accepted the idea that students are supposed to act in one standard acceptable way. Square peg / round hole. I like the idea that teachers just teach as “alternative” teachers and school would. The system as a whole would be better off if teachers were allowed to teach but even better if parents were allowed to parent. With the needs of the economically enslaved ,the children are ousted to paid care givers(non-family) and told to grow,learn and flourish . The whole child can not when this vital link in living has been severed so early. It is part and parcel to becoming a good adult and parent themselves. If we are to produce more fodder for corporations things are fine. But I think(hope) the times are a changing!
Welcome, Mardie and thanks for visiting :)
Although I didn’t read through the whole NPR conversation, I want to thank you for the link. So interesting!!!! I’m glad you found twowritingteachers – great blogpost.
Elona – I know you do. That’s why I keep coming back to you :)
Linda – that is very kind – thank you!
I agree, too. I believe we should all be that kind of teacher. I wish NPR had another story about you!
I agree with you 100%.